Codependency isn’t sexy. It isn’t romantic. It’s built with a fuse and will surely burn out. The healthiest thing you can say to the one you love is, “I would be okay without you, and that’s why I choose to stay.”

LB, A Few Things About Love (via dangervvank)

This this this. My mom always told me “You don’t ever need to be with anyone… Want to be with them. And never stay with anyone who says they need you.”

(via nockturn)

spokenunspoken:

shaky:

I’m stuck between wanting:

1. A long lasting relationship with my soulmate who supports me and protects me and is my partner and we are completely bad ass together and in love

2. Wanting to have casual sex and rip out the heart of everyone person I meet

3. Being independent and having a loyal dog while I’m married to my career

It scares me how accurate this is.

Deep Questions

  • 1: Close your eyes and think of five things that make you smile when you think about them. What are they?
  • 2: If your house was on fire and you had sixty seconds to leave, what would you take with you?
  • 3: When you're alone in the middle of the night and you can't quite get to sleep, what do you think about? "Going to sleep" doesn't count.
  • 4: What is love to you?
  • 5: What is the opposite of love?
  • 6: Is it possible to love someone if you don't love yourself?
  • 7: Do you believe mutual attraction based on mutual hatred is possible?
  • 8: Is it better to have something amazing and lose it or to never have had it to begin with?
  • 9: Do you focus more on the past, the present, or the future?
  • 10: Do you judge people for what they wear or how they express themselves?
  • 11: Do you believe in individuals over generalisations?
  • 12: When you're very scared or worried, what do you think about or do to help you feel better?
  • 13: How do you feel about what happens after death?
  • 14: Would you rather live a hedonistic life full of good things that make you feel good even if they're bad for you, or a healthy life centered around treating your body like a sacred temple and watching your health as closely as possible? Or do you not care either way?
  • 15: Do you think you can tell a lot about a person from the way they express themselves or answer questions like these?
  • 16: Do you have any special or magical memories you'll always have with you?
  • 17: How would you define yourself, without saying your name or giving a physical description of yourself or your obvious personality?
  • 18: When do you feel truly at peace?
  • 19: Do you like having your worldview or opinions challenged or questioned?
  • 20: Do you believe happiness can exist without sadness?
  • 21: Is there a reason for existence?
  • 22: Do you think the world existed before you did?
  • 23: Do you believe people need breaks from each other, even if they're deeply in love?
  • 24: What do you find most beautiful in people?
  • 25: Do you take questions like these literally or pick up on what they really mean?
  • i wanna do these ! someone ask me stuff : D